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Don’t let your hormones control you
L-word is complicated,
scary and sometimes special, but which one is the right feeling? There is a
thin line of difference between these two and it takes a lot to identify it. In
today's time, youngsters and teenagers are just running for a relationship like
cats and dogs. I don't understand if they really want a companion or just a
person in their lives to compete with others, to show-off or just to maintain
their social status. I feel like people feel intimidated by the person who has
a so-called boyfriend or girlfriend. I mentioned so-called because you don't
know what's going on in the life of others, it can be as awesome as your dream
life or it can be as worse as hell.
This society is social
media controlled, and if you would have noticed, nobody is sad on social media.
For some strange reason, everybody is happy and satisfied, but is that the
reality? You can't judge a person based on their social account or just by
their dressing sense or his/her rank in society. So, the person you think you
love or he/she loves you back is it actually the reality? Love is a very heavy
word, it is not just a 4-lettered word. Love what I think is sacrifice, trust,
understanding each other, respecting each other and what not but not just
having intercourse. Nowadays relationships are judged based on their sex count
or sex experience.
And somewhere around,
people have also lost faith from each other as they just look for a physical
relationship. And that's quite fair because people have just lost their
humanity and sanctity on which any relationship can be built. A good enough
example would be dating sites. They were made for people to bring love in their
life, to have a companion. But what's the reality, people use these apps for
hookups or for one-time sex. Well, I don't really know which one is right to use
love or lust, and I am not here to tell that. I just want to convey that love
can be deceptive too. The feeling which you're experiencing in the name of love
can be lust also. Especially for teenagers who have just hit puberty misunderstood
the concept of love. It can be infatuation or lust.
It's your call at the
end of the day what are you feeling, but just don't be confused among them.
Hope you
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Posted By -
Tripda Chaudhary
