Love or Lust. Which one is real?

Don’t let your hormones control you

L-word is complicated, scary and sometimes special, but which one is the right feeling? There is a thin line of difference between these two and it takes a lot to identify it. In today's time, youngsters and teenagers are just running for a relationship like cats and dogs. I don't understand if they really want a companion or just a person in their lives to compete with others, to show-off or just to maintain their social status. I feel like people feel intimidated by the person who has a so-called boyfriend or girlfriend. I mentioned so-called because you don't know what's going on in the life of others, it can be as awesome as your dream life or it can be as worse as hell.

   

This society is social media controlled, and if you would have noticed, nobody is sad on social media. For some strange reason, everybody is happy and satisfied, but is that the reality? You can't judge a person based on their social account or just by their dressing sense or his/her rank in society. So, the person you think you love or he/she loves you back is it actually the reality? Love is a very heavy word, it is not just a 4-lettered word. Love what I think is sacrifice, trust, understanding each other, respecting each other and what not but not just having intercourse. Nowadays relationships are judged based on their sex count or sex experience.

And somewhere around, people have also lost faith from each other as they just look for a physical relationship. And that's quite fair because people have just lost their humanity and sanctity on which any relationship can be built. A good enough example would be dating sites. They were made for people to bring love in their life, to have a companion. But what's the reality, people use these apps for hookups or for one-time sex. Well, I don't really know which one is right to use love or lust, and I am not here to tell that. I just want to convey that love can be deceptive too. The feeling which you're experiencing in the name of love can be lust also. Especially for teenagers who have just hit puberty misunderstood the concept of love. It can be infatuation or lust.

It's your call at the end of the day what are you feeling, but just don't be confused among them.

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Posted By - Tripda Chaudhary