There
is no need to sugar-coat that long-distance relationships are tough. I can feel
this very well on my own because I myself in a long-distance relationship. My
fiancé is a merchant navy person, and I know how to be with him. He is miles
away from me, so I can better understand how these long-distance relationships
are being maintained. Being miles away from your love is not an easy
task as it puts stress on the relationship and both of us because it requires
an extraordinary amount of trust and dedication to each other. If we make it
out perfectly, only then we can make our relationship beautiful.
It
is not quite simple sometimes to keep the connection alive you once had when
both of you were right beside each other. But Fret not, there are lots of ways
to keep the romance alive in long-distance relationships.
Nowadays
we have to stay away from home because of our work and not only from home, we
also have to stay away from each other and our loved ones too. This is the main
reason behind all long-distance relationships.
Sad
thing is that you cannot look in each other eyes, give hugs and kisses or go on
a romantic date. Without romance, the relationship is basically a friendship,
which is not a bad thing, but being in a relationship people have craved
something deeper, something romantic. We have to get creative by being in a
long-distance relationship. Some tricky things will keep the romance alive,
here are some ways I came out with to have romance in long-distance
relationships.
1.
You need to share everything, even things that your partner isn’t aware of and
that’s the foundation of a long-distance relationship. Even if you are miles
away there are some unspoken rules that you need to talk and discuss with your
partner like commitment, exclusiveness, open-mindedness and so
on.
2.
The second and most important rule in a long-distance relationship is to be
always honest. You might not believe it, but the moment you start lying, your
partner will start feeling that something is wrong. No matter how good you are
at lying, you can never completely hide when something is up. You must be
caught/It can be seen by your changing behavior, your schedule, or two or three
lies running into each other; whatever it is, your partner will notice. So, be
honest and don’t lie else there is something you will never be able to
repair.
3.
Ask about your partner's health, show interest in knowing how was the day. It
sounds sappy, but always text each other good morning and good night - It is
feels exhilarated and good to let your partner know that you are thinking of
them from morning tea till when you are going to sleep. If you are feeling
super avid, ask your partner some thoughtful questions be creative and
reconcilable with communication such as “How was your sleep?” or “Know
each other schedule” or “Share some funny moments at work/home” or “You had
Lunch or Dinner?” I am also doing this daily to make my relationship stronger.
4.
Send photos, the text of your day. And make sure you are using a great messaging
app. Messaging is the only valuable form of communication otherwise it is
difficult to get in touch. Do video calls to them.
5. Let
your feelings out – by singing or writing. Sing a song for them I
think this is the best way to show your love and gratitude. It is a natural
thing when we truly love someone and wanted to dedicate some romantic songs to
them. Give words to your feeling, pour that word in sentences and compose a
segment full of love when you are not able to talk.
Hope
you find the article interesting...
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Posted
By - Neelam Saroj
Really its Beautiful ways...and a beautiful thinking about long distance relationship,
ReplyDeleteThank you for share your personal experience..
Thank you, Bharti. There are numerous advantages of Long-distance relationships as you can enjoy your alone time and your time with your friends and family.
DeleteTeam LIVEVIAR
Blog is very good and understandable...i will practice for singing
ReplyDeleteThank you Vinodnadu. As I said, singing is the best thing which connects the heart. Please share some more ideas that you want to try.
DeleteTeam LIVEVIAR
The blog is written very well because in 21st century we all will be apart from our loved ones for career and other commitments of life but we should always show the love we have for our love ones. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteAnd waiting for more blogs ☺
Thank you so much for your positive feedback it means a lot for me. Sure, I will write more.
DeleteTeam LIVEVIAR
This is for merchant navy and defence people...who stay so far but still love there loved ones.
ReplyDeleteSo true, tho one who has to go out either for the nation or to secure their family and their loved one future.
DeleteTeam LIVEVIAR
Your words just touched my heart, please keep posting more blogs.
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